Saturday, February 14, 2015

A Few Books

I haven't had much time to post lately (I'm grabbing naps when I can!), but I thought I'd share a few books I've been reading lately.

Sweet baby AJ is busy eating, sleeping, and growing. Besides my trusty La Leche League reference on breastfeeding (The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding), my very favourite practical parenting resource is The 90-Minute Baby Sleep Program by Polly Moore. After having four children, if I could recommend just one book to new parents, this would be it. Moore is a neuroscientist specializing in sleep research, and she explains how babies' natural biological sleep/alertness rhythms work. The main idea in the book is actually quite simple: after your baby has been awake for 90 minutes, he/she will be ready to go to sleep again. Obviously, as they grow, they need less sleep, but the 90 minute alertness cycle remains quite strong throughout their first year and beyond.

This book explained so much for me! It explained why my children slept worse at night when they didn't have their proper naps during the day...something that had always seemed counter-intuitive to me. Also, why they suddenly stayed awake so much longer when transitioning to fewer naps...I now realize it was simply an extra 90 minute cycle. I know my reading this book has contributed to the calm nature of my babies (so far!). A well-rested baby is a happy baby. I borrow this book from the library and read it again every time I have a baby now.

I don't remember where I heard about Peace Like a River, but somehow it ended up in my library reservations. I was completely spellbound. I wanted to start over as soon as I finished it, but passed it to my husband instead. It will make you think big thoughts about miracles, about justice and love, about God. And it is beautifully written. Just read it for yourself, and see how you like it.

This week I began to read Peter Pan aloud to my children...and stopped after one chapter. So far we've loved all the Ambleside Online suggestions for free reads: Little House in the Big Woods, Pinnochio, Charlotte's Web, The Velveteen Rabbit, but for some reason Peter Pan wasn't going over well. They were finding it hard to understand, for one thing. I also found it vaguely disturbing, and didn't know how it would affect their dreams. So I stopped.

I did love some of the humour in it. (It does seem to be aimed at the adults, though!) Here's a fun example:
'No, no,' Mr Darling always said, 'I am responsible for it all. I, George Darling, did it. Mea culpa, mea culpa.' He had had a classical education.
What about you? Have you read Peter Pan to your children? Did they enjoy it? Have you ever given up on a read-aloud?

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Thank you!
I always like your recommendations. Always.
1 reply · active 527 weeks ago
I think, given your love of proper amounts of sleep yourself, you will especially like the sleep book.
Peter Pan didn't go over well here. None of us really liked it very much. We were listening to an audiobook, and ds did end up finishing it, but I doubt we'll revisit it for the younger kids. I found it a bit unsettling myself. I have heard that there are some people who just love it, but I'm not one of them. ;)
1 reply · active 527 weeks ago
Nice to know I'm not the only one. I wondered if I was missing something. :)
I love Peace Like a River (and so do my parents, sister, and friends)!
2 replies · active 527 weeks ago
Have you read Enger's second book as well? I just reserved it at the library after enjoying this one so much.
Yes, I read it last year. I'm not sure I liked it quite as much, but it has some similar themes. Worth the read!
I'm definitely going to check out that sleep book! I always refer to Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child by Wiessbuth (sp?).

We started Peter Pan a few weeks ago and felt EXACTLY the same way! I stopped reading after the first few chapters. We *might* revisit it later, but I'm not sure.

*I'm* reading Peace Like a River too! I'm only in the first quarter (the older brother just "did the thing" [I don't want to spoil it!]) and I'm looking forward to finishing it. I can't remember where I got the recommendation either. Maybe Goodreads? I did just finish reading Caught Up in a Story by Sarah Clarkson and she talks about the book A LOT. But I think I started reading it before i started hers... *scratching head* Anyway! It's a great book so far! :)

I'd love to see some new baby pictures! HINT, HINT! (because I'm sure you have lots of free time to take and post pictures.. ;o) God bless!
1 reply · active 527 weeks ago
Aha! It must have been Sarah Clarkson's interview with Sarah MacKenzie on the Read Aloud Revival Podcast. :)
We'll see about pictures...I don't tend to put many family pics up here on the blog, just because it is so public. I did make an exception last time, and now you're asking for more. :)
We did not even get started on Peter Pan. Two others we just couldn't get to work: Pinocchio and Anne of Green Gables.
1 reply · active 527 weeks ago
I'm starting to notice that my children have different tastes... my 6-year-old liked Pinnochio, but my 4-year-old didn't care about it at all. My 4-year-old LOVES the Little House books in a way my 6-year-old does not come close to, though he does like them as well. And then of course there are my tastes to take into consideration too. :) I suppose we would be in trouble if Anne did not work for us, since we live on PEI. We're not there yet, though.
I had a version of Peter Pan that was abridged in 1925 "with the approval of the author". It's illustrated by Shirley Hughes, who is fantastic, and my children have loved it - we've read it several times. I know it's best to avoid abridged books but I don't think they're always lacking in quality. I plan to revisit the original when the children are older. It's this version here: http://www.amazon.co.uk/Peter-Pan-Wendy-J-Barrie/...
1 reply · active 527 weeks ago
Thank you! I'll have to see if I can get a copy. It looks like there's a new edition coming out this summer: http://www.bookdepository.com/Peter-Pan-Wendy-Sir...
We are reading Pinnochio. So far the kids like it. I wouldn't say they love it though. Maybe it's because they are easily distracted. They love it when I read to them, but sometimes I wonder if they are paying any attention.
No, I was not a fan of Peter Pan, or Pinocchio, or Lewis Carroll's. Sorry to say! Congratulations on the baby!

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