Thursday, June 11, 2015

Start. Keep Going. Finish Strong.

I just started a fun little self-improvement project called Couch-to-5K.

Alright. I lie. It's not fun at all...yet. Every time I have gone out for my little walk/run so far, I have had to exert my will and make myself do it. Every time I have started a running interval, I have had to stop myself from worrying about how long and how far, and just focus on staying in the moment. Each time I have completed a week, I have thought, "I can't possibly go on to a more difficult workout next week." But each week I do just that.

I could have spent a lot of time deciding on what kind of shoes I should wear while running, and whether they were the perfect ones for my feet. I may have spent some time deciding on an app for my phone that would be the perfect program to meet my goals. But I'm sure we can agree that these things don't matter nearly as much as me heading out of my front door and actually starting to run.

My homeschooling can be a lot like beginning that running program. I sometimes spend too much time thinking about all my choices beforehand. I read catalogues. I research online. I read about other people's experiences and think too much about whether I'm making the very best choices. But really, the most important thing will end up being how I use the things I choose.

I am planning to teach JJ(4) to read next school year (He is so very ready!). I have a simple phonics program in the house, along with a few Bob Books. I also have the experience of teaching SA(6) to read using some of Charlotte Mason's ideas. Still, I have been looking longingly at programs in glossy homeschool catalogues, and seriously considering books that have worked for my friends. I have not quite made up my mind what we will do yet, but it comes to me that what's really needed here is for me to just start.

I know what to do. I have done it before. The program I choose doesn't really matter as much as sitting down with him every day for five or ten minutes and working on phonics and sight words.

Making good curriculum choices is important. But they do not have to be perfect choices. The curriculum is just a tool to help me reach my goals. In the end, success will be more about whether I faithfully took the time and effort to teach my child what he needs to know.

So start.
And once you've started, keep going.
Don't stop until you've reached the finish line.

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Great advice. As I've been saying lately... If I waited until I really knew what I was doing I would never do anything.
1 reply · active 511 weeks ago
Yes, exactly! :)
Time and effort. So true.

A 5K! Awesome! :)
1 reply · active 511 weeks ago
*chuckle* I'm not there yet. I just started week 4, so I'm in the "keep going" stage of that.
I know the Couch-to-5K is not the main point of your post, but I want to say that you can do it! I did it twice and have run one 10K in my life. (Collapsed at the finish line... my brother beat me even though he didn't train *at all*). So I am not a runner, ha! I just finished my second Bikini Body Mommy 90-day program and I definitely recommend them (even though I have no plans to strut around in a bikini!). The workouts are only 20 minutes, free on YouTube, and they alternate strength and cardio. I am not affiliated with BBM, I just like telling people about it. :)
2 replies · active 511 weeks ago
Thanks Margaret! My own sisters lose weight naturally just nursing their babies, but that has never worked for me (In fact, I think my body hoards everything I eat while I'm nursing). I will check out that YouTube program.
Yup, I definitely worked hard to get back to my pre-baby weight.
Yes, just getting started and keeping on going, day after day after day after day.... That's all it takes, and sometimes it's a lot, but it is what God asks of us. May God bless you and your busy family.

Enjoy the journey!
1 reply · active 510 weeks ago
Thank you, Annie Kate.
I can so relate to the curriculum quandary and waffling! I too am trying to decide what to use to teach my next daughter to read. I think I've finally settled on Reading Lessons Through Literature by Kathy Jo Devore. It uses the OG approach to teaching phonograms (75 basic phonograms and 30 spelling rules that cover 98% of the English language). And I'm hoping it will help with spelling and sounding out big, unfamiliar words. That is one thing my older daughters seem to need a hand with. It's like they just see the beginning and ending sounds and then start guessing to fill in the middle instead of breaking words down into syllables. Anyway, we'll see how it goes. Like you say, I just need to buckle down and START! :)
1 reply · active 510 weeks ago
I have been tempted by the (expensive) Memoria Press First Start Reading, but I think that in the end I will just stick with Alpha Phonics, which I already have.
This is so true and so very encouraging. Takes a load off, really. :) thank you!

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