Monday, July 27, 2015

Year Two, Day One...the Good, the Bad and the Ugly

Ugly.
We Started off the day with an extended issue with SA(7) over brushing his teeth. I calmly decided that the consequence would be no breakfast until the teeth were brushed. We all ate breakfast except him. Somewhere around 9:30 he decided he was hungry. I decided he'd better brush his teeth and eat before he became impossible. (My children have issues when they're hungry, for some reason.) I know it sounds weird to brush your teeth before eating, but I just want the tooth-brushing to be part of the morning routine, done as soon as he gets up. He's done so for the past couple years until the last week or so and is not communicative as to why he suddenly stopped. Anyway. To make a very, very long story short, the teeth were finally brushed about 10:00 AM, after which he scarfed down his very cold oatmeal. I managed to get through it without losing my temper, but it was a huge two-hour energy drain for our first school morning...

Good...or Bad? Not sure yet.
In the interest of spending as much time as possible outside while it's still summer, I decided to put two hours of outdoor time into the morning routine, after math and chores. The bulk of SA's schoolwork would be done after lunch. By then the boys should be ready for some time indoors, I thought. Also, any local homeschool co-op events usually take place in the morning, so I could fit them in when they come up without really altering my routine too much. However, after today I'm remembering that I often have a bit of an energy slump right after lunch, so it's really not the ideal time to do school. Today I ended up collapsing into a chair at about 3:00, utterly exhausted. Of course, that seemed to be their cue to crowd around me and climb on the back of the chair.

Don't. Touch. Me. Pretend Mama is in a bubble. Please.

Should I have different routines on different days? Get most things done in the morning on rainy days and have this new "priority outdoor time" routine just for sunny days? I just don't know. I will stick with the new routine for the week, and then decide.

Maybe good?
We started to read Pilgrim's Progress this morning. I had the bright idea that I would give the boys paper and pencil crayons and let them draw a picture for narration. That didn't go so well, but I will continue to model it a few times to see if it will catch on.

Good
I started teaching JJ(5) to read this morning. We learned the first page of Hop on Pop. Tomorrow I will scramble up the words and have him construct sentences with them to make sure he has them down pat. JJ is so eager to read. I don't think it will take him long to learn.

Also Good
I used the timer on my smart phone to make sure our lessons were short and didn't go overtime. This worked very well, and I felt that SA(7) appreciated this.

Very Good
SA(7) did his first official narration of something he read himself  (So far I have always read aloud to him.). We started with The Burgess Animal Book for Children. I kept it short, and put the timer on for ten minutes. He read silently until he came to a good place to stop, then came to me and told me what he had just read. There was some time left, so he went back and did it again. We marked where he stopped reading, and will continue tomorrow. He seemed to really enjoy this, and narrated well.

Just a question.
When am I going to do my housework? I technically have time for it in my written routine, but somehow only half of it got done today. (I'm not looking for an answer, just some commiseration...)

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We are beginning week 5 of year 1 this week, and I've been doing the same as you - a couple hours of outdoor time in the morning, right after breakfast and chores. It's just so hot and humid here by around 11:00 am, I figure we need to get outside asap, or we won't ever get out. But, like you, by the time we come in, prepare, eat, and clean up lunch, I'm pretty drained (plus, being 33 weeks pregnant doesn't help either ha)! As a result, we've been having a rest time for about an hour after lunch, then I do school with Izzy. For the most part, she seems to do fine, but I can tell some things (like reading instruction) would probably go better if it was done earlier in the day.

And the housework....yeah....I hear ya :)

I hope you have a wonderful year!
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
I was where you are just last winter... year 1 and pregnant. :) Rest time is a great idea! I've been sending my younger boys for quiet time at the beginning of our lesson time, but we could probably all benefit from that.
Wow! His first narration of something he read himself - great job!

Mama is in a bubble. Yes. I can totally understand that. That, and the housework issue. :)
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
I know, I'm so excited! He has actually been doing it informally with random library books that he tells me all about. He's not ready to read all his books, but I'm happy to start making the transition with his easier books.
I love this realistic post!
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
I have asked myself the housework question for the past 12 years. :) I keep trying different routines, times but to no avail. I have finally come to the conclusion that my house will probably not be sparkling clean until I am finished homeschooling (which will be in 6 years) but I will have had some wonderful memories of being with and teaching my children.
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
Yes. That's the priority, isn't it? It's not even about the sparkling clean, though...even half decent would be nice. :)
Thanks for this in-the-trenches post. :)
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
You're welcome. :)
Great post, as always, Nelleke. I think children need a lot of outdoor time and it would be a shame to miss out on that so do continue with that. However, rather than have two hours in the morning, why not have one outdoor hour, then some school work and then after lunch incorporate a half hour or three quarters of an hour quiet time. I think quiet time is also very important and we maintained that for many years. It is good for the mom but it is also very good for the children. Our boys each had their own spot. If they shared a bedroom then one son would be in his bedroom while the other might be in the living room. During this time they could look in a book or read a book or play very quietly with a toy. I always wanted silence during this time (because I needed that!!) but I feel kids need to learn to be comfortable with silence and with themselves and quiet time helps foster that. After QT you can do a bit more school work if you feel you need to and then send the boys outdoors again for some physical activity. And make sure you also get some fresh air. ;) You need it as well. As for a clean house.... Depends on your definition ;) It shouldn't be long now and your children should be able to make a meaningful contribution to that. Oh, and one more thing...I love your "just pretend mommy is a bubble." I wish I had thought of that!
1 reply · active 504 weeks ago
Thank you for your good advice, Gertrude. Much as it's hard for me to change directions mid-way, I think we will try what you suggest. I was exhausted by the end of the week, and I think that a quiet time for me as well as the younger boys might be the solution.

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